How's The Glass Looking?
While I could be quite content staying in this hotel, there is a whole other world out there to explore. I haven't updated much because, to be completely honest, I haven't been particularly happy since arriving in Hong Kong.
The general atmosphere is not a pleasant one for me. The pollution and dirtiness is shocking at times, as is the uncivilised and rude behaviour of the citizens I see everyday. There seems to be little community spirit or respect for others. To back this up, it's common for people to stand side-by-side on escalators and not moving to let others past, spit in public and I even saw a man grope a girl on the street. The food is pretty foul, and tap water undrinkable (tastes like potatoes straight from the soil) and we've all had dodgy stomaches. One of my coworkers even had food poisoning from chicken in a restaurant. Foul indeed. Pun wholeheartedly intended.
Still, there's something intriguing about this place. It does have some interesting sights and manneristics and I would like to understand more about how the system works.
It's difficult to give more of an explanation to how I feel because, although I've been here fifteen days, I've been working 12 hour days (including travel) for most of it, so I haven't had much free time. The shorter week at Nova did allow me to acclimatise to my surroundings, so time is definitely a factor that is going to figure heavily over the next month or two. I'm not a quitter and, besides, how crap would it look on my CV to leave so quickly.
I will attempt to keep the blog going, as it seems sad to finish so suddenly, but it's been difficult to find the enthusiasm. I don't want every entry or picture to be negative but I do want to be honest.
It's very easy to give a positive first impression of anything, and no-one would really ever question it. But to say a negative thing makes people combat it with a "give it time" type line. Imagine a child going to summer camp for the perfect analogy. But that is what I'll do; I will give it time. Please bear with me.
Mum sent an article from the JC by a tourist who seems infatuated with the city. Or is it territory? Country? I digress. They write a line which I think explains why my reaction has been so difficult to those who have visited Hong Kong:
Retail is king in Hong Kong; it has shopping malls in which you could lose an entire city. The stuff they sell is rubbish, mostly.And there is where the difference lies. For tourists, the excitement shrowds the rubbish that lurks underneath. But for permanent residents, the rubbish is the base of what everything exciting has been built from. If you sit down, and take a big gulp, the glass looks half empty.
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AMENDMENT
I re-read the above and it comes off much too negative. I hope to find at least aspects that I enjoy and will try and focus on these. And if my opinion changes, and I fall in love with the place, I will not proudly deny it. Maybe that would make for a more interesting read on here; to see the transition. But I don't know what will happen.
And then there's that word from the above quote; mostly.
Not entirely.
Mostly.
There is, as I wrote, "something intriguing about this place".
Time will tell.
2 comments:
I was so pleased to check in and see that you had added to your blog today. I know that it has not been an easy move for you to make and the fact that your first impressions of Hong Kong have been so negative has obviously made it worse. At least your accommodation is excellent so that is something. I feel to an extent guilty that I encouraged you so much to go to Hong Kong and leave Japan. I felt at the time that it was too good an opportunity for you to miss and I still feel that. If you hadn't gone it would always have been "what if?" I would also say that I know that we were only there for about three days but honestly did not come across a lot of the rudeness and bad manners that you have met. So as you have said, give it some more time and hopefully you will find something about it to like and whatever happens you can put it down to experience and learn from it and it will look good on your cv.
Delve deeper, I would suggest whilst everything was on a plate for you by being "transported" by Nova, working abroad can be a rude awakening, perhaps the culture of Japan is unique yet interesting to outsiders. You probably know the story of when they translated Shalom Aleichems "Fiddler on the Roof" to Japan, the Japanese could not understand how it could translate to a foreign yet alone a Jewish culture! There is so much in your own culture that often it is only necessary to compare it from outside. You were fortunate to have found kind considerate people in Japan as in Keiko, and her family; however as an outsider again you need to delve deeper again. Maybe join a club perhaps something like Rotary where you can meet people of a like mind. Try the shul restaurant, give it a few goes, and see what goes on for Chanukah, shabbat 8th December. also note that the territory is commnded from china as a remote trading post. Be aware that shanghi will have different challenges and be very aware that Shanghi has a different, and very different political and social mix. as for earning power Shanghai lags behind and maybe a step too far for your company, check out recruitment / head hunting and related relative bonuses, not everything is paved with gold!
Hong kong from a tourist perspective has lots to offer, yes in parts it is unkept and thers is a great differnce between have and have nots. Be wise and street wise, life is what you make it. Do't let the b***** get you down as they say in Latis (Nils semper est........?)
Work work and no play is no fun so get out and meet up with new people.... enjoy it.
love Dad
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